First-generation student Q&A: Paul Gyaakye

First-Generation College Celebration Day is recognized every year on Nov. 8. This year, Randolph is celebrating first-gen students all week long and held an induction ceremony for Tri-Alpha, which celebrates the academic accomplishments of first-generation college students, on Wednesday, Nov. 5. 

We are also profiling some of Randolph’s first-generation students. 

Paul Gyaakye, Assistant Controller

Hometown: Essuowin, Kumasi-Ghana

College attended: George Mason University

Major: Accounting

What does it mean to you to be a first-generation student? 

Being a first-generation student is like stepping into uncharted territory—it’s about breaking barriers and navigating a world that might feel unfamiliar but full of opportunity. It means you’re carrying the dreams of not just yourself, but often your family too, as you pave a path that hasn’t been walked before in your household. 

It might look like figuring out FAFSA on your own because no one in your family has done it before, or explaining to your parents why you’re spending hours studying instead of working full-time. It’s tackling challenges like understanding the hidden subtext in academic systems—office hours, networking, internships—all while balancing the weight of expectations and often financial pressures, not excluding migrating from another country and trying to understand a new educational system. 

But it’s also about resilience and pride. You’re proving to yourself and your family that you can rise to the occasion. It’s about creating a legacy, being the one to show younger siblings, cousins, or even friends that higher education is possible. And when you graduate? That’s not just a win for you—it’s a win for everyone who’s supported you along the way.

What are your memories of being a first-gen student? 

Figuring out FAFSA is like a puzzle written in a foreign language. You’re sitting there at the computer, Googling every other term, trying to make sense of what’s required. And when you finally submit it? It feels like climbing Mount Everest.

Looking back, what were some of the biggest challenges you faced — and how did you navigate them? 

As an immigrant, I found myself asking questions like, “What even is a credit hour?” or “How do you choose the right classes without accidentally overloading yourself?” I was able to overcome these challenges with the help of college advisors and some amazing classmates I was lucky enough to meet along the way.

How did your experience as a first-gen student shape your path after graduation? 

Being a first-gen student profoundly shapes your journey after graduation. The hustle and resourcefulness you develop in college often carry over into your career. Figuring things out on your own makes you the go-to problem solver at work, and navigating the unknown builds confidence to take risks, whether it’s stepping into a leadership role or starting your own business. It also fosters a deeper sense of empathy and awareness. Personally, I feel a strong responsibility to give back—whether it’s mentoring other first-gen students, supporting my family, or pursuing work in areas where I can make a meaningful impact, like education or social work. And, of course, there’s the immense pride that comes with being the first in your family to break through those barriers, which drives me to keep striving for even bigger goals.

What do you wish someone had told you when you were a first-year student? 

Honestly, no one expects you to have everything figured out. Academic advisors, professors, and even classmates are there to help—you just need to reach out and ask.

What message would you give to your younger self, just starting college for the first time?  

Relax. You don’t need to have everything perfectly planned out right now. Take it one step at a time and don’t be afraid to make mistakes—they’re part of the process. Speak up when you need help. Professors, advisors, and friends are there to support you, but they won’t know unless you ask. Get involved in things that excite you, even if they seem out of your comfort zone—those experiences will shape you more than you realize. And don’t forget to take care of yourself. Rest, have fun, and enjoy the ride. You’re capable of more than you think, and you’re going to surprise yourself. Keep going!

What makes Randolph special? 

The people in my office are more than just colleagues—they’re my work family. We celebrate together when there’s good news, and when someone shares bad news, we come together to support and comfort them.